Life will never be the same again.
This year I turned 25, my favorite number, so I told myself that this was going to be my best year and I would do everything I ever said I wanted to do. Shortly after my birthday, everything changed. My fiance left me after 4 years, it’s good we split before getting married because a divorce would be worse. My Doll’s cancer grew more leaving her weaker than I’ve ever seen and now she’s having surgery. My sister is now jobless making me worry for her even though she feels free to do anything she wants. My mom is more stressed than ever which is causing her health to decline ever so slightly. My grandma was sent to the emergency room today but she claims to be just fine.
It’s only been 4 months into my 25th year and it’s turning out to be completely opposite of what I wanted. I’ve done two things that I wanted, skydive and buy a car, but neither of those can make this year feel great. In fact, I worry everyday about my family, my relationship with my ‘friend’ is on the decline and I expect that we will not be part of each others live in 2015 and I will have lost my best friend.
So far, 25 has sucked so much. My friend Romy back home tells me to only allow myself to see the positive so I try to do just that everyday. I see the positives but they don’t change anything, they don’t change how I feel. I see the truth of whats going on and look at it from a realist point of view and I have become cold and heartless, just like my ‘friend’, about everything in life.
October may not be a kind month so I will prepare and expect the worst. I’m very sad at the moment and need a friend.