Last night I got engaged!
I’m so excited right now that I am not sure I’m even expressing it. If I were sitting at a table with someone right now and we were having a conversation I doubt you could tell what was going on inside of me but I would be smiling with the biggest grin I’ve got. The thought of proposing came to me more than a year ago when I went to my first concert, with my love, to see Boyce Avenue.
So yesterday, we went to San Francisco to see them again in concert and enjoy a day together since lately we hardly have any time to be together. I woke up super early because, in my head, this day was going to be the best day ever and I wanted to enjoy every minute of it. My love got there around 9 a.m.; knock on the door and a big smile on her face. I got my bag ready with a few things I thought I might need just in case it was cold or had down time while she lay on my cloud relaxing. We had some cereal, honey bunches of oats (best ever), so we wouldn’t have to stop for food and take longer. She slept in the car while I drove us there, which for me was like ehhh because I’ve only been to San Francisco a handful of times so I was worried I would take the wrong exit or something but we made it.
First place we went was to pier 39 to get fresh seafood because it is not often that we get to have fresh seafood. She had some amazing clam chowder and I had fantastic fish and chips. It was at this point she left for a few minutes giving me time to think about the perfect time to propose and move the ring from my bag to my pocket; if only I had known that my original plan would have been the one I used.
From the pier we went to the Exploratorium. Its a huge science museum on pier 15 with different kinds of science experiments built for kids and adults. The entire place was like one giant candy store for us and you could tell as we went from spot to spot going “ooo”, “aaahhh”, “look!”, etc. It was so big we began to feel tired but wanted to keep looking at everything inside. I particularly enjoyed the magnetism and biology sections. Alas, we ran out of time though and had to catch the bus to get to the theater to pick up our VIP passes. Once we were leaving, my mind felt flustered as I thought, “this is not a good time but the day is moving on and I haven’t found the right time yet”. While walking I was panicking because the ring was still in my pocket and when I looked down the box was visible so I figured she could see it too. I almost did it while at the coffee shop but it didn’t feel right. Even though we were a little rushed, we did enjoy some good drinks from my favorite coffee place, The Coffee Bean and Tea Leaf. I had a chai tea latte which was so good I said it was a phenomenal drink; I’ve never called a drink phenomenal.
Luckily, my love knows the public transportation in the city because we found the right bus within minutes, however, had it been left up to me we might have arrived super late. We didn’t have to be there until 6 so since we arrived at the theater around 5 we went to get some lunch from a Safeway across the street. The entire time we are walking she keeps pulling my close and hugging me, which I love, but since the ring was in my pocket I kept trying to pull away just a little so she wouldn’t feel the box. She was making me more paranoid about the fact that she knew what I was going to do. We get back to the theater and find the line to get in so we can get our passes and meet the band. Now, we are just standing in line waiting and it’s killing me that most of the day has passed and I haven’t proposed yet because I have found the right time. I could have proposed in line but that’s not how I wanted to do it.
We finally get to go inside and meet the band. I’m getting my phone ready to take a picture and dying inside because I want to propose so I’m anxious but I’m meeting the band so I’m excited. It’s our turn next and so we walked over and my mind blanks. I’m shaking their hands and all I can say is, “hi, how are you?”; I was so excited I had no idea what to say to them.
So, we go back outside to wait to be let in for the concert while they do final adjustments and get ready. I’m kicking myself for spazzing and not having proposed. Once we get inside, we get front and center, literally, but it’s here that its perfect, the lighting is nice, there is soft music playing, a huge open dance floor. Still, I did not propose. Madilyn Bailey begins her set and she was fantastic. Her voice was gorgeous! Megan Nicole followed with a fun set but the entire time I was trying to figure out what shoes she was wearing.
Boyce came out after the crowd went wild yelling, “BOYCE AVENUE!, BOYCE AVENUE!” From the first note that played, as soon as the lights went out, a rush of excitement surged through the crowd and they came out playing. They played some new songs which were just amazing, every song they perform is stellar. I was getting nervous about proposing now because the entire day has passed by and the ring sat in my pocket because I hadn’t found the right moment. Then, they played our song! My love and I began dancing. In this moment, nothing else mattered in the world, it was just her and me and the way we feel for each other. I asked her then if she would marry me, which she at the time thought I was just being silly as we occasionally ask each other that, but then I pulled out the ring. She looked shocked and cried but said yes! The rest of the set was amazing with their new songs and an encore, I was on top of the world, I still am. I had been waiting for that moment for more than a year because I knew at their last concert I wanted to propose at their next concert and if I had known that’s exactly how it would happen I wouldn’t have been stressing so much for the last 2 weeks. It was perfect though.